When we consider social sites we automatically think of Facebook, MySpace or perhaps Bebo. Social media sites include YouTube and Flickr. There are many social bookmarking sites that can be used to deliver traffic to your sites.

Digg and StumbleUpon are the two most popular sites although del.icio.us is is also well respected. These are not the only sites around. The following bookmarking sites could well be worth a visit depending on the genre of your site.

Reddit: this is one of the social bookmarking sites that relies heavily on your interaction within the community. In fact if you don’t have the time to invest on this site then you will not get the most from it. Reddit really is a social networking site – the emphasis is on the networking. The more you network the more successful you will become.

De.lirio.us: this site is very similar to del.icio.us – in fact you can import your data from del.icio.us if you wanted. De.lirio.us works in a similar fashion to del.icio.us although when submitting a post, you need to use your own tags – but then you already use tags don’t you?

Linkagogo: a site that is perfect for novices. It is easy to use and easy to get a good understanding of. Whilst no where near as big as some of the other sites, sometimes smaller is better – there is certainly less competition and as the site grows popularity, so too will your authority as an ‘old hand’.

These are just three social bookmarking sites that could be used to bring in new traffic. The keys to these sites include good tagging and good networking skills. The more you network the more authority you will gain.

One aspect of social marketing which every business owner should be aware of is that it’s completely free. However, the most preventable marketing mistake that a business can make is to focus to heavily on themselves, their product or their service.

Don’t get me wrong, social marketing is all about promoting, but it is how you promote that matters. Social sites are, by their definition, places where people meet to socialize. They don’t want products shoved at them from all directions. What they do want to hear is what you can do for them.

Solving questions or providing solutions to problems will win you many fans and should be the starting point for any social marketing plan. Gently promoting your product or service along can be done if it is part of the solution. Social media can be a great vehicle for releasing new products, again if you can feed the ego’s of the members of these site.

Many sites don’t approve of open promotion, or the social marketing of products or services, and for good reason. The focus on many of these sites is to provide a forum where people can meet and socialize. People in these situations will naturally discuss anything and everything. It is through these general discussions that you can develop your own following.

If you really want to capitalize on the wave of traffic that flows through many of these sites then you could purchase open advertising on a pay-per-click basis. To date many of these campaigns have failed. The reason behind these failures comes back to the nature of the sites. People are gathering to socialize and share stories, not buy. Social marketing needs to be subtle.

Find the knack of delivering your social marketing strategy in a subtle way and you will find success. The number one rule for social marketing success, answer the question, what can I do for you? Social networking will be so much easier.

Web page design is becoming more important as each day goes by. StumbleUpon joined the thumbnail team earlier this month with thumbnails of stumblers favorite web sites displayed in their profiles.

It is becoming a trend that I feel will only spread further since many members of social networking sites feel more comfortable seeing images. StumbleUpon provides users with two options, either grid or list.

Your web page may soon become your social brand with thumbnails appearing like foot prints behind either your activities or your social friends. Until now, web pages have been designed for the benefit of visitors and search engines, you may now need to consider the thumbnail appeal of your site. Social sites like StumbleUpon are not shy about the size of your thumbnail either. In past thumbnails were very small, these days they are a reasonable size with good clarity.

If your web page is not up to scratch then perhaps it is time to do some housekeeping. Put on a pretty face for all those thumbnails that are going to continue to appear on sites like StumbleUpon. Your thumbnail is now a part of your social marketing face – capitalize on it.

Did you know you can now host your videos on Flick? Flickr have incorporated video streaming onto their site and you can now save up to 90 seconds of video per file. In other updates the storage capacity for each photo has been increased to 20 mb for pro members and 10 mb for free members.

[source]….you know that Flickr is all about sharing photos that you yourself have taken. Video will be no different and so what quickly bubbled up was the idea of “long photos,” of capturing slices of life to share

As can be seen, Flickr primary aim is to get short videos of ‘life’. I am sure we will soon find ways to incorporate marketing videos into the system.

I was discussing all things web related with a friend and his wife yesterday and one of the topics that came up related to her interaction on the web. Now she spends as much time as I do online, however she has a very small number of activities and sites she visits. Her partner has a small blog that relates to parenting issues.

One of the sites she does spend a lot of time on is a parenting forum type site. On this site she has a lot of authority ranking in the sites top 20. When you consider there are over 10000 registered members, being in the top 20 is nothing to sneeze at – in fact she is now an administrator. What does this have to do with social networking? Good question.

Many months ago she invited me to join and I did, however I only pay passing attention to the site, mainly having a quick peek when she points something out to me. Our discussion yesterday centered around the types of discussions and questions that get asked. I had a closer look today and discovered that, despite being a parenting site, everything was discussed, even politics. Not only that, members quite often sent external links to each other. Now there is a social networking opportunity if ever I saw one.

These types of sites are good for getting feedback on various issues including products. Over time you can also drop links to your own sites – so long as you don’t spam. Social networking opportunities are everywhere now. Treat the sites as ’social networks’ first, and marketing issues second.